I dunno -- I think the chain is silver too. I'll have to inspect it.
It's too heavy to be girly, IMO. It reminds me of dog tags.
I'm not wearing mine on the chain, I have it on a shorter sterling square snake chain (it's about 14" long - YES I am a pencil neck
) and I like it on that. I didn't take off my other necklace either (I have a Tacori diamond eternity necklace, similar to Tiffany's diamonds by the yard, but mine has bigger and smaller stones all the way around.
) I always wear it, and they actually look nice together.
How about that. Our numbers are damn close!!