Ivy, my condolences on the loss of your uncle.
I hope that he's having a grand time at the rock and roll show upstairs.
I agree, skin cancer doesn't get the press it deserves. I'm a beach bunny, and I spent a long time tanning myself - because although I'm blonde haired and blue eyed, I tan into a golden goddess thanks to my Italian heritage.
BUT, I have long learned the error of my ways and now I self tan.
I put sunscreen everywhere when I'm on the beach and I reapply like hell. If I miss, I know because my nose freckles come out. I also drink olive oil, cause as much sun as my Grandmother got - she didn't have ONE wrinkle. Not only do I think she was lucky (and Italian) She died recently at 89.
She had lines from smiling between her nose and her mouth, but they went away when she wasn't smiling. She ate a TON of EVOO!
So do I! LOL! and she was the mother of 11 kids, 2 sets of twins!